[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/jde-o-vase-dite-a-ne-o-vasi-prestiz\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/jde-o-vase-dite-a-ne-o-vasi-prestiz\/","headline":"JDE O VA\u0160E D\u00cdT\u011a A NE O VA\u0160I PRESTI\u017d","name":"JDE O VA\u0160E D\u00cdT\u011a A NE O VA\u0160I PRESTI\u017d","description":"V\u0161em n\u00e1m kdysi b\u00fdvalo jeden\u00e1ct. Byly to bezstarostn\u00e9 \u010dasy, kdy jsme chod\u00edvali do krou\u017ek\u016f, nebo jen tak s\u00a0kamar\u00e1dy ven a za\u017e\u00edvali spoustu legrace. V\u017edy\u0165 jsme <a class=\"mh-excerpt-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/jde-o-vase-dite-a-ne-o-vasi-prestiz\/\" title=\"JDE O VA\u0160E D\u00cdT\u011a A NE O VA\u0160I PRESTI\u017d\">[...]<\/a>","datePublished":"2025-02-28","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"amoresperros.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c61c2d82e330ff9c70cf023b4c62d411e8407bcb38f85df591fa270717754b44?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c61c2d82e330ff9c70cf023b4c62d411e8407bcb38f85df591fa270717754b44?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"amoresperros.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a313396_w1888_t1524122505.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a313396_w1888_t1524122505.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/jde-o-vase-dite-a-ne-o-vasi-prestiz\/","about":["Vzd\u011bl\u00e1n\u00ed"],"wordCount":683,"articleBody":"V\u0161em n\u00e1m kdysi b\u00fdvalo jeden\u00e1ct. Byly to bezstarostn\u00e9 \u010dasy, kdy jsme chod\u00edvali do krou\u017ek\u016f, nebo jen tak s\u00a0kamar\u00e1dy ven a za\u017e\u00edvali spoustu legrace. V\u017edy\u0165 jsme byly d\u011bti!Na\u0161i potomci m\u00edsto \u0159\u00e1d\u011bn\u00ed venku, st\u0159\u00edlej\u00ed na virtu\u00e1ln\u00ed nep\u0159\u00e1tele, m\u00edsto rozhovor\u016f na lavi\u010dk\u00e1ch, kdy my jsme u toho jedli nanuky, sed\u00ed u chatu a p\u00ed\u0161ou si ve zkratk\u00e1ch, a tak nen\u00ed divu, \u017ee rodi\u010de p\u0159em\u00fd\u0161lej\u00ed, jak je l\u00e9pe p\u0159ipravit na budouc\u00ed \u017eivot.Je lep\u0161\u00ed si s\u00a0potomkem sednout a prodiskutovat, zda stoj\u00ed o takovou velkou \u017eivotn\u00ed zm\u011bnu.Ono u\u017e samo o sob\u011b j\u00edt k\u00a0p\u0159ij\u00edmac\u00edm zkou\u0161k\u00e1m chce notnou d\u00e1vku odvahy. Strach z\u00a0ne\u00fasp\u011bchu a zklam\u00e1n\u00ed rodi\u010d\u016f, je to, co spoustu d\u011bt\u00ed odrazuje.\u00dasp\u011bch a p\u0159ijet\u00ed m\u016f\u017ee znamenat pro rodi\u010de d\u016fvod k\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9 men\u0161\u00ed d\u011btsk\u00e9 oslav\u011b. Bohu\u017eel si ale neuv\u011bdomuj\u00ed, jak\u00e1 zm\u011bna nast\u00e1v\u00e1 v\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b jejich d\u00edt\u011bte.Nov\u00e9 prost\u0159ed\u00ed, nov\u00e9 d\u011bti, jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob u\u010den\u00ed a nav\u00edc mnohem t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed, v\u00a0n\u011bm vyvol\u00e1v\u00e1 obrovskou obavu, aby neselhalo. Obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165, pokud rodi\u010de sami \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed:\u201cB\u011bda ti, kdy\u017e p\u0159inese\u0161 trojku!\u201cKa\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d d\u00edt\u011bte, kter\u00e9 se hl\u00e1s\u00ed ke studiu na v\u00edcelet\u00e9m gymn\u00e1ziu, se t\u011b\u0161\u00ed, jak po jeho p\u0159ijet\u00ed bude v\u0161em zn\u00e1m\u00fdm, jejich\u017e d\u011bti d\u00e1le nav\u0161t\u011bvuj\u00ed z\u00e1kladn\u00ed \u0161kolu, vykl\u00e1dat, \u017ee po pr\u00e1zdnin\u00e1ch bude m\u00edt doma gymnazistu.Je\u0161t\u011b jednou:Zeptejte se d\u00edt\u011bte, co doopravdy chce. Je jasn\u00e9, \u017ee se boj\u00ed p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00fdch zm\u011bn, ale chce odej\u00edt ze \u0161koly, kde m\u00e1 sv\u00e9 obl\u00edben\u00e9 u\u010ditele, kamar\u00e1dy a \u017eije jako spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b a ne u\u0161tvan\u00fd student?Ne, nikoho neodrazuju, ale d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 pr\u00e1vo mluvit do va\u0161ich pl\u00e1n\u016f o jeho cel\u00e9m \u017eivot\u011b.Slova typu:\u201cVyzkou\u0161ej si p\u0159ij\u00edma\u010dky a sv\u011bt se nezbo\u0159\u00ed, kdy\u017e t\u011b nevezmou,\u201c jsou zbyte\u010dn\u00e1, proto\u017ee vy u\u017e jste v\u0161ude rozhl\u00e1sili, \u017ee jde k p\u0159ij\u00edma\u010dk\u00e1m a v\u00a0duchu si \u0159\u00edk\u00e1te, \u017ee pokud se nedostane, bude za hlup\u00e1ka a v\u00e1m se budou sm\u00e1t.Ka\u0161lete na to. Kdy\u017e ho nevezmou te\u010f, bude m\u00edt je\u0161t\u011b p\u00e1r let d\u011btstv\u00ed a pak m\u016f\u017ee d\u011blat zkou\u0161ky na norm\u00e1ln\u00ed \u010dty\u0159let\u00e9 studium.N\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed gymnazi\u00e1ln\u00ed u\u010ditel\u00e9 \u0159\u00edkaj\u00ed, \u017ee na \u017e\u00e1ky osmilet\u00fdch studi\u00ed cel\u00e1 l\u00e9ta pohl\u00ed\u017eej\u00ed jako na d\u011bti a tak\u00e9 tak s\u00a0nimi, necht\u011bn\u011b, jednaj\u00ed. Naopak, s\u00a0t\u011bmi, co p\u0159i\u0161li jako patn\u00e1ctilet\u00ed, proto\u017ee u\u017e jim bylo jasn\u00e9, \u017ee tam cht\u011bj\u00ed studovat, jednaj\u00ed jako dosp\u011bl\u00fdmi, proto\u017ee jsou pro n\u011b vyzr\u00e1l\u00e9 osobnosti a tak\u00e9 se k\u00a0nim tak chovaj\u00ed.V\u00e1\u0161 potomek se dostal v\u00a0jeden\u00e1cti na st\u0159edn\u00ed \u0161kolu? Gratuluju, ale v\u011b\u0159te mi, \u017ee zpo\u010d\u00e1tku budete muset skousnout, \u017ee zn\u00e1mky se zhor\u0161\u00ed.Gymn\u00e1zium je t\u011b\u017e\u0161\u00ed a \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd z\u00a0pedagog\u016f neslev\u00ed v\u00a0n\u00e1roc\u00edch jen proto, \u017ee m\u00e1 ve t\u0159\u00edd\u011b d\u011bti.V\u0161ichni se b\u011bhem prvn\u00edho pololet\u00ed teprve u\u010d\u00ed, jak to tam chod\u00ed. Jin\u00fd zp\u016fsob v\u00fduky a psan\u00ed test\u016f je n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd na psychiku patn\u00e1ctilet\u00fdch, nato\u017e o \u010dty\u0159i roky mlad\u0161\u00edch student\u016f.Na z\u00e1kladce jste t\u0159eba byli sv\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem ukecan\u00ed, abyste na p\u00edsemku napsali omluvenku. Tady to neplat\u00ed. V\u0161e se mus\u00ed dopsat a jsou ur\u010dit\u00e1 procenta doch\u00e1zky, kter\u00e9 sm\u011bj\u00ed zame\u0161kat.S\u00a0trojkami se na za\u010d\u00e1tku smi\u0159te.\u00a0D\u00edt\u011b hlavn\u011b mus\u00ed c\u00edtit podporu rodi\u010d\u016f, ne tlak, \u017ee MUS\u00cd m\u00edt maxim\u00e1ln\u011b dvojku.V\u00a0druh\u00e9m pololet\u00ed v\u00e1s ur\u010dit\u011b p\u0159ekvap\u00ed lep\u0161\u00edm vysv\u011bd\u010den\u00edm a vy si budete moci oddychnout.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"JDE O VA\u0160E D\u00cdT\u011a A NE O VA\u0160I PRESTI\u017d","item":"https:\/\/www.amoresperros.cz\/jde-o-vase-dite-a-ne-o-vasi-prestiz\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]